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An Awful Lot Better than Flunking
July 27, 2012 | 4 Comments | Betsy Woodman
I did my first official reading and signing of Jana Bibi’s Excellent Fortunes this week, at the Water Street Bookstore in Exeter, NH. The next morning, I poked around Phillips Exeter Academy, founded 1781. My dad, Everett Woodman, graduated in 1935, and he called the famous preparatory school “the best university in the world.” If he could see the campus today, with its science and art centers, observatories, and Louis Kahn-designed library, he’d be doubly convinced of that.
Not that he got a particularly illustrious start at Exeter. On Nov. 17, 1932, he wrote home:
“Dear Dad,
The marks came out this afternoon and right now I feel pretty discouraged. In chemistry, last time I had a C, which is a good enough mark. This time it is E+, which is just under passing. I don’t understand it and I am going to see my teacher at once and find out the reason. I think that I deserve quite a lot more than an E+. I brought the English up to D-, which is just passing (and) that is an awful lot better than flunking. The Algebra stayed just the same.”
In other words, still flunking. He was mystified by math. In later years, he would tell how his math teacher would painstakingly explain things to the class, and then turn to him and say, “Woodman? Any snags?” It was mostly snags.
The D- in English, however, strikes me as an irony, because he turned out to be a beautiful writer.
At Dartmouth College, his first semester marks weren’t stellar, either—a D in zoology, and four Cs. Granted, those were the days when the “gentleman’s C” was not a disgrace, but the zoology grade was no doubt distressing to his dad, who hoped that Ev would follow in his footsteps as a doctor.
Even in the days before grade inflation, however, a D in zoology didn’t get you into medicine. My dad didn’t become a physician. But he did get a doctorate—in educational psychology—and worked as a college professor and as an educational consultant to the government of India. He also served as president of a college, Colby Junior College (now Colby-Sawyer College) in New London, NH.
He attributed his academic turn-around to supportive teachers. Increased motivation was critical, too. He came home from the invasion of Normandy determined to do something constructive with his life and idealistically convinced that education would help keep humanity from repeating the lunacy of war. (Alas.)
As a professor, I don’t know how hard a grader he was, but I suspect he sympathized with students who were struggling.
Late bloomers wherever you are, take heart.
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Betsy: I just finished JANA BIBI’S EXCELLENT FORTUNES. I felt so comfortable and at home in Hamara Nagar in the year of my graduation. I loved all the citizens and visitors to that charming town. Can’t wait to pass the book on to my daughters- in-law and to my mother-in-law. She is 94 and blind but her daughter reads to her. I think she would be charmed as I was.
Ruth
I love “’Woodman? Any snags?’ It was mostly snags”! I sure could identify! And how sweet and encouraging is your last line Betsy! I know I have my Algebra II book around here somewhere…
Betsy, a year or so ago, a brother of mine wanted to dispose of old file boxes from my parents and he asked if I wanted to go through them and keep anything. I found my deceased father’s grade cards from UCLA. I was shocked to discover that he didn’t get all A’s; though his grades were mostly respectable, one or two were downright embarrassing. His lowest grade, I believe, was in psychology, with reminded me how he was from the generation which regarded psychology as indulgent, soft, and not a legitimate field for study. I wonder if he even went to class. But in any case, it made me reassess him a bit and realize that perhaps he, too, was once rebellious and unwilling to go along with the program. And like your dad, he, too, went on to do doctoral work at prestigious university (though he never finished that degree). That whole experience has led me to think of him differently; perhaps he, too, was always less finished and more a work in process throughout his life–just as I am. Hmm.
Betsy,
Thank you for Jana and Mr. Ganguly (more human than human!). My favorite novels make me feel glad to be alive. I will buy all of yours.
Check out My Brother’s Story (free author/read audiobook at http://www.allenjohnsonjr.com).